There are a plethora of relationship podcasts that give me the ick, and Dear Future Wifey Podcast is one of them. I think the goal of Dear Future Wifey is to help empower couples in their relationships. However, at this point, I think it’s a guise to mostly support men who have, at some point, been monsters to their wives and to condition women to be mistreated humbly in hopes of a decent husband years later.
The Dear Future Wifey podcast always gives me dysfunction and toxicity every time I see couples on there. Those women CHOSE to accept all kinds of disrespect to be picked. SILLY‼️ That’s what they are. And they will sit there grinning and helping their husbands, their smiling husbands at that🤦🏾♀️, retell those trifling stories. The saddest part about this is that all of the wives I’ve seen on there were Christian women, and many of them lie on God to feel better about being silly enough to stay.
@dustinpoynter I HAVE A HEADACHE 🚩 🚩 🎥 Dear Future Wifey Podcast #redflags #cheating #cheater #marriage
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And the Dear Future Wifey Podcast host? Oh, he’s going to always hype it up and add a little razzle dazzle to try to make it sound so profound as to why the couple’s journey came with so much suffering for the wife and why the husband finally had an epiphany about treating his wife better. That man is not an honest man, just like those husbands aren’t. He can’t truly believe all the hogwash that spills out of his mouth or that he agrees with on the Dear Future Wifey podcast.
NEWSFLASH!!
You can love your man, honor your man, AND honor YOURSELF in a relationship. Just get you a man who will honor you back and during the entire relationship. Women desperately need to learn this.
Being in love doesn’t equate to being someone’s fool, so stop playing that role. There are men out here who won’t make you suffer through menacing behavior before they finally prioritize honoring and respecting you a decade later. You just have to believe it and stop believing the lie that you can’t get one.
Be okay with waiting until that man comes because if a man isn’t SAFE for you all around, then that particular man is not for you. Wait for somebody else.
And puhlease, for the love of God, run from podcasts that make a habit of rationalizing men’s poor behavior towards and poor treatment of their wives/girlfriends. Especially if you’re a delusional one… because sometimes these types of podcasts validate your stupidity when you really need someone to be honest with you and say, “No, baby. This man ain’t it. He’s going to damage you.” And to call out those signs that it’s going to happen, so that you can start having quality experiences with dating and relationships moving forward by choosing better men.
See, a lot of women eat podcasts like Dear Future Wifey up because they are in the habit of not being better or requiring better from men they are involved with but rather trying to feel better about not being loved and treated right by the men they’ve been begging for it. Because they can’t force those men to change and because they love their men, they seek to feel better about it. They seek to feel better about not honoring and respecting themselves by staying in that relationship while their men dishonor and disrespect them every chance they get. And you know what? You know why it takes decades of being with men before they “treat you right” (which I don’t think ever really happens after so long… maybe better but still not how it should be), because those men see that they can get away with it because so many women are so desperate to have a man that men become more important than their own wellbeing.
Do you think that’s right? Be honest! You don’t! So don’t be that woman. It’s okay to love yourself more than you love men. You actually attract better men when you love yourself more than you love men.
If you are standing in similar shoes as the women described here and you are ready to be loved and attract better men, grab my printable Why Do I Accept BullSh*t Workbook and answer the questions honestly, no matter how uncomfortable they make you. You have to figure out the why before you can make better decisions about it.
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